A waiter in a white shirt and dark apron carries a tray of drinks through a warmly lit restaurant.
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A2 · Elementary
NewGlobal · Culture & Everyday Life

Why Do We Tip?

Created by dabai laoshi · 28 Aug 2026

Key Vocabulary

tip

extra money given to a worker, usually in a restaurant or similar job

In the United States, people often leave a tip of 20 percent.

wage

the money a person earns for work, often paid by the hour

Some restaurant owners pay a very low wage and expect tips to do the rest.

pressure

a feeling that you must do something because other people are watching

A tipping screen can create pressure when a worker is standing nearby.

owner

the person who has a business and is responsible for paying workers

The restaurant owner saved money by letting customers pay part of the wage.

expected

believed to be the normal or required thing to do

In some countries a tip is expected; in others it is unusual.

Article

You finish a meal in a restaurant, and the waiter brings the bill. You add extra money, called a tip. It can feel like a small thank-you. However, in the United States a tip is often not small.

People say they tip for great work, but history tells a harder story. Tipping in America grew as a way for owners to pay workers less.

After a war that made Black workers free, hotels and trains gave many of them jobs. Some companies paid them very little on purpose. Guests had to leave tips so the workers could live. The owner saved money, and the customer paid the staff. [1][2]

This idea later became a rule. U.S. law still lets some owners pay a tipped wage. This was only $2.13 an hour. Tips should bring the worker up to the normal lowest wage. If the tips are too small, the owner must add money. [3]

Today the pressure can appear on a screen. A small screen turns around and shows 18 percent, 22 percent, or 25 percent. A worker is often watching. Many people tap a number because they do not want to look cheap. [4]

Tipping also splits the staff. Waiters who speak with guests often take home more money. Cooks who make the food usually do not share those tips.

Reports find that tip size follows the bill more than the work. A large bill brings a large tip even when the waiter is the same. [5]

Owners did not invent tipping. Travelers brought it from Europe. But many owners used it to move wages onto guests. The next time a screen asks for 22 percent, ask who you are paying.

Discussion Questions

  1. Do people tip in restaurants in your country? What happens if someone does not leave a tip?
  2. Have you ever felt pressure from a tipping screen? What did you do?
  3. Should the restaurant owner pay a full wage, even if menu prices go up? Why or why not?
  4. Is it fair that waiters often earn more than cooks and dishwashers? Who should decide pay?
  5. Which part of the tipping story surprised you most, and why?

References

  1. Federal Reserve Bank of Richmond, "Tipping: From Scourge of Democracy to American Ritual," on post-Civil War tipping and Pullman porters. Source
  2. CNBC, "How tipping came to the U.S.," 30 November 2023, on employers shifting wages onto customers after the Civil War. Source
  3. U.S. Department of Labor, Fact Sheet #15, on the $2.13 federal wage for tipped employees. Source
  4. Nir Eyal, "How Technology Tricks You Into Tipping More," Psychology Today, on digital payment screens and preset tip amounts. Source
  5. Michael Lynn, "Restaurant Tipping and Service Quality: A Tenuous Relationship," Cornell Hotel and Restaurant Administration Quarterly, 2001. Source

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